Quote Originally Posted by kamuishima
No. At the time it was not satisfying. It was painful and humiliating.
That is unfortunate. It was beyond what you were willing to submit to. I assume that now you know how to handle potential situations like that.

Humiliation in D/s and it's connection to self-esteem is difficult to dissect because of the very fine line that connects the two. The objective of responsible D/s is to be aware that the humiliation in play does not spill over into real life self-esteem.