hello A/all!
it's been a few weeks since i've written and so now that i have some time i thought i'd give you an update.
my first date has now grown into over 3 weeks. we have been spending lots of time together getting to know each other in both a vanilla way and a D/s way. we seem very compatible in the way we express our natural states.
i have come to realize during these past few weeks that a D/s situation outside of playtime is something i'm not ready for and he is very understanding and doesn't push things.
we have just begun "training". he has asked me to wear his play collar during scenes and so we work toward the steps that get us to play. He is patient and kind and i am very happy.
thank you all for answering my questions .. i'm sure i will have many more as we progress through my training.
now .. mysteron's kitten![]()