Changing tastes... well, considering that I've been *really* interested in bondage from age 16 to 26, I should hope my tastes have become a bit more sophisticated!
Probably the biggest thing I've learned as a sub is the line between fun control and annoying control. Things that sound fun to me in fantasy--a master picking out my clothes, monitoring my bank account, or making me ask permission to use the bathroom--actually just irritate me in real life. I definitely prefer the explicitly sexual to the mundane, although a few hours or a day of "mundane" D/s could be an interesting experience.
The biggest change in my tastes is my fairly recent interest in being a Domme. I thought I didn't have an ounce of it in me, but the more I've learned about myself, the more I've found switching to be a good way to explore both sides of the coin.
The most recent development, and something I'm still working on, is the acquired taste for semen. I have to be in just the right mindset to swallow without gagging, but damn, I've never wanted so much to do something so simple! It's getting better all the time...





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