I hear you. I hate it when that happens. It's happened to me at lot too *here*. This is the only site I am on that logs me out while I'm on it. But if you log back in on the screen it takes you to, and then hit proceed when the word proceed comes up, many times all your hard work won't be lost
Ok now here is some links for you Violetgem. Most have clickon's for other areas of the site that may apply, or that you may have interests in.
http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html
http://www.laps.org/
http://www.polyamorysociety.org/
http://www.polyamory.org/
http://www.sexuality.org/
Blessings to you on your Journey Violetgem. I am here, or on personal messaging if you wish to discuss anything.
Respectfully~SidheWolf