Thank you for the nice welcome I'm more comfortable with the title of submissive, as I feel that describes my situation more correctly. We do frequent another forum which has a subsection (no pun intended ) for BDSM. This place seems quite a bit more relaxing on first glance.

The collar looked simply beautiful, as was the other work I peeked at on the site. I have yet to be collared, so who knows, maybe we'll win the lottery and can get that for the occasion *nauraa* (see, there it is, the infamous *nauraa* )

How did we start? To be honest, I can't remember. Looking back I can't help but realise that the energy was there from the beginning. There was the playful wrestling where I'd end up under Him with my back against the floor (not alltogether unintentionally ) and my hands above my head. Not to mention the way he encouraged and prodded me and got me to say yes to things by gently pushing me. But how did we actually get into the real stuff? Slowly, very slowly...There was talk of being tied up, teased (including in public), spankings...slowly evolving into talk of Him doing those things to me, of me doing things to please Him...And then I was kneeling at His feet and getting writing assignments, netsearching assigments...and such. But as He said, we've yet to do things in R/L. And I am still very much taking babysteps in BDSM.

I think that's enough of my ramblings for now. Again thank you for the welcome redEva