I am having my sub write in a journal every night. As it stands, she just writes what ever is in her head. Then at the end of the week the journal is handed over for me to read. Great insight into her head. So this aspect is very useful. But I also realize that this is a great tool for helping our relationship grow.

So how do you use your subs journal? Do you direct it? Do you assign subjects or topics? And when you read the journal, how do you respond to what you read? (I know this last one is very general. But I hope that you will provide an example and how you handled it.) I am very aware of how much I have to learn. Help me use this tool wisely!

-Pastor