No worries, Tojo. We're just starting to explore this more. Extending the time of a scene is something that's definitely on my list of things to work on. I'm hoping to lead him toward taking his role as my Dom a little more seriously and exploring the whole control/self-control thing more. I'm trying to be careful, though, because I'm starting to sense that he feels like I'm pushing a little more than he'd like.

In a sense, I kind of feel like I'm controlling the whole thing right now, which is a little odd, because I'm most definitely a sub. But I tend to think that being a sub, being able to give over like that to another person in a consensual relationship, is the ultimate form of control. I say who gets to control me and who doesn't and what they get to do.

Anyway. I'm hoping that he'll start taking the reins a little more over time. Good things come to those who wait. :-)