Don't take my comments to mean that I was saying any of you were or were not an adulter. What I said was how I feel about it. I didn't comment on if I was or wasn't an adulterer. That information is to remain between myself and my wife/partner/submissive/slave.

Tojo, I didn't take what you said to be refering to me. I rarely take offense at what someone says, unless they are speaking falsly about me, or my wife. Then I have a problem.

Back to the thread. In my opionon to consider yourself an adulterer or not is something you will have to come to terms with, when conducting whatever activity it is your doing. Online or not.