I dunno about this level business- this is a relationship between two people, not a corporate management rating system.

Herein lays the problem: I assumed that because I had been a level five vanilla husband, I surely must automatically be a level five Top, Dom and Master, Right? Guess what I figured out--It don't work that way!
Now that bit I agree with- being a Dom is a whole different kettle of fish. However, wanting to be a good Dom is a darn good first step.