I know what you mean, Borgs slave! I belong to a board that is mostly for women (though there are men there as well). There are lots of forums there, on parenting, health, fashion and beauty, etc., as well as sex boards. However, the vast majority of the people on the sex boards are vanilla. There are some people there who use sex toys or light bondage or might have sex with the lights on (those kinky freaks!), but that's it. Everyone on the sex boards there knows that I'm a collared submissive, live the BDSM lifestyle and call my husband Master, instead of the usual DH (though I will call Him that on the non-sex boards).

Well, one day a woman posted a question asking for advice on how to become multiorgasmic. Since I always have multiples, I gave her some advice about what Master and I did. Then after she thanked me for my advice, another poster said this to me in her post:

What is this Master sh*t!
I don't know why it REALLY bothers me..but it sounds so freakin immature and I feel like it is degrading to women.
Of course your still going to post it because this is what you do...but I think it is really pitiful sounding.
And I KNOW no-one cares what I think...and it's not nice to write this to you...but I can't help it!

On that forum you can send in violations of their terms of service, which is what I did, telling them that it was a personal attack. Then another poster e-mailed me, letting me know that she had also reported that post as a violation of TOS and that the particular moderator of that board did as well. And that post was removed from the board itself. As for the poster I replied to her that everyone on the sex boards knows that I call my husband my Master and that I wasn't going to get into a useless debate with her about my lifestyle of choice and also that I was putting her on ignore. I could have really ripped her a new one, but I decided to just be calm and collected about it. I'm fine with the vanilla people on the sex boards there saying something like, "Well, that lifestyle isn't for me, but I'm glad that you're happen with your relationship with your Master." That personal attack that poster gave me was simply uncalled for.

I'm glad that you like it here, Borgs slave. Please come join U/us in the chat room sometime. W/we have some really good people here. I've belonged to several other BDSM forums before I came here, and this is by far the best of them. I felt welcomed from the first day I was here.