I actually came across this forum looking for a sub (haha) for another forum I used to frequent. The crap that happened there (as it was a gaming/general discuss anything forum) was mainly that 'little girls shouldn't play in the intellectual sandbox'. I began feeling unwelcome by a lot of the members of the forums because of my affliation with my Sir and because my inability to let people be ignorant.
I couldn't discuss my lifestyle because "no one wants to learn about kinky shite on a forum, if they did they'd pm and ask you". So here I am. I love this site and the wonderful people who frequent here as well. I feel really welcome and it'll take a few wild horses to pull me away from the great community I feel I've found here.