This is the first BDSM forum i have been a part of. Being relatively new to the lifestyle, i was extemely shy at first. This is a great place to meet like minded individuals. Everyone promotes a friendly, open learning environment here. i have come out of my shell quite a bit over the last 8 months. This is a wonderful place to be. i am so very glad to have found this site and interacted with all of the people that i have met here. Thanks to the staff for giving us such a wonderful place to be.
There is so much controversy and misunderstanding of our lifestyle it is sad when we are not more tolerent of eachother. We are a community despite all of our differences and we should support eachother as such. I agree with the fact that those who do flame and slam the lifestyle are very insecure about themselves. We hate in others what we hate more in ourselves.