Amber & Jay - truly this saddens me in a profound way
I know how hard this is for both of you and my hugs go to each of you as you walk through it.
Please know, if I can at all help in any way, I will be there. Even if all you need is to vent on the phone or me to come and be a shoulder to cry on.
Take care of both of you always,
hugs and love, xo