I agree with you Maddie and if you can have that type of relationship then for goodness sake hold on to it! I understand others who do keep it secret. I hid things from my ex-husband for a very long time. In the beginning I tried to tell him stuff and even get him involved in my online life. But, his jealousy was so bad that I took it "underground"

Now, that I have my Dom, things are much different. We have computers within 3 feet of each others. I tell him everything that is of importance. I play on 8 boards so of course I don't tell him every thread I post on. But, if it's of a sexual nature or something I know he would want to know I do tell him right away. I like being held accountable now. I like the honesty.