Are you an adulterer?

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I was interested to read karin{ID}'s response. Certainly a pious person may consider karin's situation, a "contolled semi-open marriage", to be adulterous.

Just to clarify your notions, we are not in anyway pious. We are the way we are because we are in a commited relationship, we have made vows to each other. We feel that participating in some sort sexual contant or relationship without the others concent is as you very accuratly pointed out

the word adultery is actually derived from the Latin word aulderium meaning to debase by adding something inferior