I know that the discussion is getting off the topic of help and onto argument as so many topics seem to do, but i'm competly with TG (thats tourguide of course) on this one. If you're both submissive, don't try and hide it. If you can't find a personal dom in BDSM clubs or events, consider a professional establishment?!

sounds like fun though, wish i was in that situation mm.. two subs