Hi ManOf Faith,

Welcome.

I personally see no conflict with your faith if you are only talking about incorporating BDSM activities with your wife. I'm not a great studier of the Bible, nor do I try to sound authoritative when it comes to religious discussions but I will tell you what a minister once told me years and years ago - "Anything consenting between man and wife is fine in the eyes of God." This was in the days long before all this talk about free sex and anything goes.

If I could suggest, why not ask your minister his thoughts on adult activities between man and wife. If the minister is worth his salt I believe this will ease your conscience.