ManofFaith,

I had a simmilar connundrum for a while. I am a Roman Catholic and active in my church. for a while I thought my desires that leaned into BDSM territory were conflicting with that. But if your wife is willing and you both get enjoyment from it I see no reason that should conflict with faith. Welcome. I've made friends here and I'm sure you will too.

Cheers

Lina