After the long list of thank you notes, a few more words...

I do have an understanding that a D/s relationship can be innerweaved with any healthly marriage meaning the couple cares for and loves each other unconditionally. As long as abuse is not involved and all is consensual, I do not see any wrong in introducing BDSM aspects to our 'bedroom fun'. TY for the advice in this regard.

I'm going to continue a similar thread to this in 'My BDSM Life' since this is reserved for introductions.