Excellent idea, denuseri. I applaud your bravery in coming forward. You are so right that is hard to heal alone. It's great to find support that won't have the whiff of judgement that a lot of therapists and crisis workers have about BDSM.

I'm willing to offer what helped me for any who need it. Recovery is a long process that takes time but it does happen. It helps when you have people you can talk to about the event. Those who have survived can be a wonderful resource for those still making the healing journey.