victims of abuse support for submissives

[ashtonDs]

Originally posted by babypup:
i would love to say that i have taken something from those experiences, and that they have made me stronger....
but i honestly cant, its something that i struggle with everyday and a good amount of time i dont think things will ever get better.

I must speak for myself when I say that I can't take anything positive away from my experiences either. The things that give you strength sometimes are little day to day things. Looking back, over time, you see that you are different, stronger.

What you are saying here is almost exactly what I said years ago. (I didn't have a Master ) It will come. Don't bottle up your feelings. Don't just dump indiscriminately on whoever is closest either. Find partners in healing. Your Master sounds like one. Maybe this thread is another. If you need to talk but don't want to publicly PM someone. I'm sure anyone here would be happy to help.