well i am certianly open to whatever ideas everyone has for this thing,, i think we should keep this thread open to the general public though,, and mabey put up links for more private venues to help those that are not comfortable talking openly,

i really belive that even people that havent experienced abuse can help here too

i know that exposing ourselves is difficult, it may indeed bring on some trolls, but they better have brass ones if they come trolling here on this forum ,,winks weg

we can also arrange a few meetings between us, in a private chat room at any time convienent for us,,

kinda like a conference call lol,

also, i am open for anyone that wants to pm me for help,, i fully understand some people will want (paticularlly this topic) kept private