Daddy Doms and Little Girls

[Guest 092208]

I don't know very much about it! My own version and experience is that it is largely reflective of a real parental relationship emotionally whilst the physical can be what you make it by discussion.

There are times daddy is hated there are times when daddy is frustrated and annoyed, worried, upset, dissapointed but like a normal parental relationship the ties are strong and daddy can only just give out love and care.

The physical sex side is a personal decision and can be anything from zero sexual activity to severe bondage and torture.

The relationship is on one level very unlike D/s - example: You were told to do xyz for me reply f*** *** leave me alone I hate you. On another level it is a little deaper example: I am worried that Ive not done as well as he expected.

I think the most important aspect of ageplay relationships is safety a little one has to feel very very safe (don't be fulled when they do that in itself can bring up problems). Next there should in my view always be an element of re-parenting and learning new things for the little one.

From experience I find ageplay relationships more exhausting and time consuming than D/s and they can easily have the identities lost as emotions on both sides can become confusing.

If its just sexy teen and daddy role play I think the dynamics are very different and more fun based.

thats my 2 pence but I think ageplay needs a lot more recognition and exploration because experience of it can help develop positive characteristics in both but especially in the Dom or Domme.

[icey]

From experience I find ageplay relationships more exhausting and time consuming than D/s

^thats because little girls need spoiling and like to keep their daddys on there toes <weg> daddys like to spoil and keep there princesses happy ...cos thats what daddys do best xxx

the benefits a daddy gets (im guessing here!) from encouraging their little girls,teaching and guiding as i think flaming redheads daddy did by asking her the question has to be something they can take pride and a sense of acheivement in making the time and effort they've spent well worthwhile.

do i think daddy/little girl works the same as D/s? my answer after my own experience would be a big big nooooo,as im sure any woman here can tell you from expeience that little girls can be cute giddy fun loving and very good but they can also be very demanding stubborn bad tempered refuse to do as they're told and needy of a lot of attention and correction! and that goes for 'adult' little girls too, a lot more than the majority of subs/slaves ever are, its just a totally different dynamic and your mindset in these 'roles' (for want of a better term) is way different than that of D/s 'roles' you can do both but not at the same time to me that just doesnt work,how many 'real' little ones are slaves? and how many of them could actually cope mentally and emotionally with that and be happy, how many of you here would consider it morally right? before you answer you need to remember that unless its a kinky hou or so of play then that 'little girl' actually is a little girl not a grown up
what im trying to say in my usual longwinded way lol is that you simply cant be two 'people' at the same time certainly not 24/7 anyway, and to do both you'd have to be both a child and adult and thats were the confusion and mixed up emotions Icehawk mentioned often begins you cant just jump from one to the other in seconds it just doesnt work that way...little girls dont sit playing with there teddys or jumping rope thinking hell is that the time,i gotta iron the shirts and go put dinner on! (they nag daddy to come and twirl the rope or play teddys teaparty lol) and daddys dont spank and scold their little girls for not having a starched shirt and dinner ready on time...tell her no sweetys and bedtime story tonight perhaps and hug her when she sulks but he cant really tell her kneel slut and give her 30 strokes or vice versa.

think of cinderella...i mean sure id love to be her,what little girl wouldnt??? but they dont sleep in front of the fire in rags scrubbing the floor all day long lol and cinderellas daddy wouldnt have allowed it.
im getting tired now and rambling so i'll shut up before i say something even dumber lol