IMO... all truth is subjective. It is strictly what a particular person interprets it to be. What is true to me, may be something very different to you or anyone else. Just as ones interpretation of cheating may be. (IE: is it cheating if it's on line?)

My thought is if it's what you believe to be true in your heart, that's all that matters. Then it is true. If someone else disagrees, it is their problem to cope with, not yours.