I think you're exactly right, sub17. My Master is really an incredibly sensitive guy, especially about is own missteps. He has been so consumed with guilt about a percieved mistreatment (which wasn't really that big a deal) that is cooled out D/s relationship for over a month.

But he is also far less likely than I am to express when he is upset. I think sometimes Doms feel like they are expected to be a pillar of strength for their subs, but everyone needs a shoulder. A good sub is strong enough to be that shoulder. The relationship, like any relationship, is a two-way street.

They're all just big softies.