IF I choose to RP with a Dominant then my goal is to make it as real as possible, but def. give in and please as much as I can. The ultimate goal is to become excited/get off, right? Being a submissive, I enjoy pleasing Men/Dominants. Whether they be my R/L or O/L Dom or just one I am playing with, my goal is the same. Respect them and do what I can to comply.
So, I tend to go very very far in Fantasy.. I can't put my finger on anything that I've ever flat out said no to.
In RL I have a rule. I will try nearly anything once... and always with a new person. Things can change and thing can be better/worse with a different Dominant. I am fairly certain that I am not into touching/smelling/eating poo.
I don't like the idea of being cut with Knives... or being choked. Basically everything else.. I am game for.
-shrug- Youv'e got to be very open minded as a sub. you never know what you might love until you try it. If you and your Dom have very open and clear communication then he will know your limits by your body language and will not push further than he KNOWS you can go. Trust in your Dom, thats the key.
Anya