Hi Everyone,

I think abuse comes in many forms. My father was also verbaly abusive and a prefectionist whom nothing was ever good enough. I've recently engaged in a relationship with a man whom, I can never seem to be good enough for. He likes having sex with me just fine, but I feel like I'm trying to please him in every other way; because nothing I do is good enough for him. Strangely, like my father. Mental abuse is very is damaging and almost as bad as physical(though it doesn't compare). It still can mess you up and it's very hard to get away from or out of. I've been physically abused but not in anyway in comparission to this post. It makes me very sad that anyone can be abused in such a way. I'm sorry to hear about your ordeal but glad you posted... I think that people need to know what can go on by meeting a stranger. I've done it too much recently. Thanks for the warning. I will take heed.