I don't think you're at the wrong site.... That having been said, if you've read many of the discussions, you'll note that in exchange for relinquishing control to you, you have to (or at least should) respect her limits.

You are as bound by the contract as she is. Should you break it, she is no longer bound to obey it either. It's a two-way street. For most people, beastiality is a hard limit. For many, so is same-sex contact.

Does your contract mention her being loaned to others? Because if it doesn't, you might have to renegotiate it anyway...


Now, as far as coaxing her into being more open... one can often work wonders by example... maybe if she saw you giving your friend a blowjob... she might understand your desire to see her with another woman...

If you don't like that idea... maybe you can understand her reluctance.