if you're a dominant, which method are you most likely to use?
I'll use the one that my sub/slave most likely would have me do in that specific situation. Most of the times, its the Doms/Masters responsebility to keep the sub/slave satisfied. Not the other way around. For me, a good Sir is a Sir who doesn't set himself in first place. When choosing the way, the sub/slave doesn't want is something I do, when I have a specific purpose. I would never make my own needs top-priority. Im not using this as a punishment if I'm angry at my sub/slave. That will never do any good anyway