i believe i learned it, since my mother was very submissive to my father...by choice and with much love, i might proudly add (now that i can appreciate it). i tried giving my submission to Master but it was an unsuccessful attempt. The cause of this was on both our parts, mine due to my abuse history and his due to his past as well. It's like now i'm ready...so is Master, we just need to retrain our brains to react accordingly.