Hello Emma and welcome, the FAQ link and this link may be a good place to start as was mentioned before, and there is a lot of info in this thread too. If you come to chat please ask for help if you need it we are all happy to answer questions here. I am also happy to help you if you send me a pm or if you see me in chat ask me there too,. The academy is separate from this part of the site and if you have trouble there you should ask MistressNev the Academy Administrator or read the FAQ forum in the acadamy. Good luck and welcome.