Well I'm new here, and you guys seem great. I've joined a couple of other BDSM sites in the past but they all seemed very cliquey, not too friendly to newbies and in some cases quite hostile to switches so I never ended up staying for long. I was pleased at the warm welcome I got here and feel that when I find my way around more I'll end up learning a hell of a lot, and making some good friends.

Quote Originally Posted by Mistress M
  • What do you expect from a dom? It is a power exchange.
  • Do you feel comfortable enough to ask these questions without fear of being judged?
I don't think I fully know what I expect as I'm not that experienced. I know I expect to be cared for, to be pushed to my limits but never over them, to be able to talk openly about everything and to retain some small level of choice. Beyond that I don't really know?

Yes. And to anyone who is fearful of being judged, remember; your own judgement is the most important.