Originally posted by Mr. FixIt:
A lot of this (except for the last one) made me question myself.
And that's what makes me not question you!

I think it's more common for abusers not to question themselves on this point. If they did it would prove that they are not always right.

(Be careful about showing your soft side too much in public. Some day when you pick up a nasty looking paddle and shake it at someone all you're going to get is a giggle and a big "whoa!" lol)

ps
it was really hard to type that last comment with a straight face.