Quote Originally Posted by Reignslilslave View Post
i have suffered from abuse i just have kept quiet and on the wall about it. I am not sure how much it will help to share my experience because i have done a lot of therapy for it and realized it isnt my fault.

my mom was in an abusive relationship with my father and left him. it ended when he started stalking her online. my mom was brave and left him when i was 15. she has grown a lot since then. i do not blame her for leaving him.
Girl, sharing or not is all up to you. For some people it can help to get it of their chest - even more so if they can do it to people they won't see at work next day or at the next party. They should share.. Then there are those that prefer to keep it to themselves. They still can share, but should feel compelled to do.

Don't know the specifics of your situation, but indeed your mom was brave to leave your father, for that action you should be proud of her.
You were a kid when this happened, so you are not to blame. Never.