I guess I see myself as somewhere in between if that is possible at all. To me BDSM activities are not strictly limited to sexual scenes wherever those might take place. But on the other hand I just can't imagine living in a TPE relationship where my Dom makes every single decision for me...in fact, I think it might get boring for both sides after a while.

So...I enjoy doing tasks throughout the day for my Master and not all of them are directly linked to some sexual action...although the result for me IS a heightened level of arousal during the day just because I'm frequently reminded of the bond with my Master.

It's an interesting subject really...I hope that some more people will share their experiences and thoughts on this. I like your questions, arwcuw.