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[Rowen]

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OK……..hard copy…….a very bad subject with me!

I think that the “have no pics” people….have learned something valuable……They know that pics can come back and bite you on the ass. They have better self esteem; there is no need to parade like a peacock. They value a future other then the now. They are for the most part…..not stupid or careless with pics of themselves.

Once your image is out.......its wildlife on the web......forever!

I think asking/requiring a sub to post explicit and non explicit pics on the web, is down right shameful and wrong. These Doms are not looking out for the safety or future of their subs. They are looking to stroke their vanity at the price of someone else. Yes it may be amusing now…..but how will that sub feel about those pics a few years down the line.

Many who post pics are very young and looking for attention, and sad to say this is a way to get it….but at what price?

There are many here who like to post pics of themselves. For themselves and by themselves… if that is what they want to do….. great. I just think its…..not the greatest idea going.

Ok….and then there is the idea that good deal of the men try and float……..lmao ……Im still waiting to see the pic of a man who has a cock like Godzilla’s tail!........lmao

thrall, as always, has a point here. I mailed several times with Slut Linda and her mistress because of my worries (and still do..). However they had a point too, taking care to prevent to easy recognition by hiding the face (well that is the intention..but one can slip on that one too..yaiks!) making the risks almost theoretical...and yes..risk does add to the excitement, no denying that.

There are other sites, like the adultism one where Slut Linda is exposed as well. And I am astonished about the load of pics and vids on which people show themselves, completely.. I know, it IS exciting, and we think it is a tolerant society...but what if your coworker finds you there and decides to mail those pics to the rest of the company???? And those blackmail stories, they are exciting (well, to me anyway..yummy!) but for real???

So...if you wanna post pics..at least prevent a too easy recognition.. A pic like your crotch with his/her name on it, or some other body part with clamps etc. is exciting/humiliating enough by itself, showing you have done as ordered. It doesn't need your face or tattoo in it...

Also agree that a Dom should take care on that aspect as well, and even if the sub wants to expose completely, the Dom should strongly advise against it, certainly not encourage it. [/B]