Master and I have met o/l.
Actually we kept sending messages to each other, never even meeting in chat at the beginning. One day we happened to be o/l at the same time ;-) and from then on everything got better and better. We soon changed from chat to messenger and one day i felt the urge to give him something special, I desperately wanted to please him and without telling him beforehand I turned my cam on.
I usually only use it for chatting with people that I know r/l but who I cannot see very often due to geography, but that evening it just felt right to me.
With this our relationship, which was not yet one of master and slave, gained a whole new dimension. We talked a lot about what we thought a relationship should be like, how we would like to fit BDSM into our private lives.
When it became clear that it was just a matter of time until we would meet in person, he gave me some little tasks, always telling me that it was his wish but my decision if i would fulfill his order as long as I had not declared myself his.
we met twice in r/l before I finally was his. We have decided to both sign a contract. We know that it is not legally binding, but we both intend to keep it and it shows what we both have decided together, how our master/slave relationship is supposed to be.
What we have now is a happy r/l relationship. I do not want to miss him. But performing tasks for him o/l was just one step on our way to a r/l relationship. I could not imagine to have an actual o/l relationship that is not heading towarts r/l.
deigja