Internet relationship: blessing or torment?

[deigja]

Master and I have met o/l.
Actually we kept sending messages to each other, never even meeting in chat at the beginning. One day we happened to be o/l at the same time ;-) and from then on everything got better and better. We soon changed from chat to messenger and one day i felt the urge to give him something special, I desperately wanted to please him and without telling him beforehand I turned my cam on.
I usually only use it for chatting with people that I know r/l but who I cannot see very often due to geography, but that evening it just felt right to me.
With this our relationship, which was not yet one of master and slave, gained a whole new dimension. We talked a lot about what we thought a relationship should be like, how we would like to fit BDSM into our private lives.
When it became clear that it was just a matter of time until we would meet in person, he gave me some little tasks, always telling me that it was his wish but my decision if i would fulfill his order as long as I had not declared myself his.
we met twice in r/l before I finally was his. We have decided to both sign a contract. We know that it is not legally binding, but we both intend to keep it and it shows what we both have decided together, how our master/slave relationship is supposed to be.
What we have now is a happy r/l relationship. I do not want to miss him. But performing tasks for him o/l was just one step on our way to a r/l relationship. I could not imagine to have an actual o/l relationship that is not heading towarts r/l.

deigja

[Warbaby1943]

I could not imagine to have an actual o/l relationship that is not heading towarts r/l.

deigja

I guess it all depends on one's perspective what can and can't be imagined. Sometimes an on line relationship is as far as it can go yet still satisfy those involved in that relationship.