hmmmm

[blythe spirit]

Physical attraction is important in ANY relationship (D/s included). Any who says it matters not is either lying or kidding themselves really.

So your statement....

".....but by then my appearance will be of no importance..."

Really? Won't it? I'd rethink that if I were you

I just want to say that I'm neither lying or kidding myself. I truly do wish to know someone from the inside out. Physicalities get in the way. "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye."

No matter how beautiful a person is, the attraction is short lived if they are ugly inside. And no matter how unattractive one might be, a good, caring heart, lets their beauty shine through.

Nevertheless, admiring a nice hunk doesn't bother me in the least. hehehe.

[gemmy]

I just want to say that I'm neither lying or kidding myself. I truly do wish to know someone from the inside out. Physicalities get in the way. "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye."

No matter how beautiful a person is, the attraction is short lived if they are ugly inside. And no matter how unattractive one might be, a good, caring heart, lets their beauty shine through.

Nevertheless, admiring a nice hunk doesn't bother me in the least. hehehe.

lol blythe, of course it doesn't doesn't bother me none either but I have found the more beautiful the person is outside, the more ugly they are inside (a very general statement, yes, but is what I, in my own experience, have found) but I still say everyone has a 'physical attraction' type

Mine is big, burly, hygenic, bald is good mmmmm along with many other intangible qualities, as I said though, they need not be a God or Godess (in fact if they are, they wouldn't like me anyway as I am not one hehe) but....; I still need them to be in my category of 'attractive'

Ok, so I'm the only vain person on the entire board - no news there; I'm the only one who is the same as everyone else too hehe