By your response to gem, bradley, it is apparent that she was close to hitting the nail on the head about you. That was not only extremely unkind, but immature and less than Domly.
And gemmy, I know you're both beautiful inside and out. I too am/was attracted to a certain "type." Must be 6' or over and 250 pounds - even larger, if healthy. If I had stuck to that rule of attraction, I would have eliminated the most special Dom I've ever encountered. That's what I mean about physicalities getting in the way.
When you connect on the inside first, they are your type. Of course if they sound like Pee Wee Herman and only bathe annually and... omg, I'm so shallow. hehehe