D/s permeates all aspects of my life with my Master and we are increasing it the longer we are together. It is subtle in the public domain but it is still there.

I have chosen to give him my servitude. That is a very important aspect of my relationship with Master; I have chosen to put him first, I have chosen to take care of his needs and desires and I have chosen to make him the centre of my life. I was the one who requested that we increase our D/s/, to move it beyond the door of the bedroom and make it part of our everyday living. It has proven to suit our natures and our lives contain elements of foreplay in it at all times because we like the dynamics that D/s sets up for us mentally. I love being his slave and all it entails and he loves being my Master.

As for being ordered around Master never orders me, he has never been rude, he has never yelled and he has never asked for something arbitrarily. He has never requested me to do something that is outside my limits or that I would find impossible to do. He has always requested me to do something with a quiet authority that I have come to respect and I accept that it is my responsibility to carry out his wants and needs without delay. It matters not whether he is asking for a glass of water or for me to bare my breasts at a fetish night, he expects to only make his request once. If I ignore or fail to carry it out I can expect to be punished unless I have an extremely good reason for not doing so. The worst punishment I can ever receive is Master's disapproval or his disappointment.

There are only pros in this lifestyle for me with my Master. The closeness and intimacy that he and I have achieved amazes us both. Neither of us would have us go back to having D/s only in the bedroom.