Well my idea of punishment is to say I'm disappointed. I know that hurts, so I make sure she knows I've forgiven her & that whatever she's done or hasn't done is merely a glitch in an otherwise perfect thing.

To me it's up to a Dom/me to make sure their sub knows they're forgiven. If the sub spends days feeling awful, maybe they're not being paid enough attention.

Further to that, if a sub has feelings of rejection out of context to the here & now, maybe it's something the Dom should realise & work on.

It's not all about a Dom/me being perfect & a sub having to live up to them.

Tojo