Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I think it may be a question of how I define sex. I was using the my-orgasm-release-together-with-my-wife measurement. I'd hardly call that some extreme feat of stamina. he he. She doesn't have orgasms every day, though, so the measurement does limp somewhat. But I do my best.

I would actually call most things we do together as sex on some level....because it makes me very horny. So... we're basically horny for each other all the time. Which I can't imagine is all that strange for a couple to feel about each other. I did marry her for a reason.

Anyway... yeah. Sex is nice.
Two things to Tom's favor - first, damn I wish I could once meet a man who wanted to have sex everyday and everywhere haha! Most of my relationships have failed and mostly because of sex (I wanted lots and varied; they didn't)

I'm not the kind of gurl who wants the "lay still and think of England" kind of relationship and yet that's what all my relationships turn into. I'm hoping that a BDSM relationship will be different in that regard and show me that I'm not highly oversexed or unusual in my want of plenty of sex

Also, sex is on so many levels in our day to day life, it's really too bad that most people miss the smaller nuances of it