Definately Patience! Patience. Don't rush into a relationship or take the first 'dom' that shows interest. Trust begets love, and never trust blindly. Know your worth.

It takes time to find the right Sir for you. I actively searched and dated - and got fakes, and pervs, and jerks.

Sometimes you just want to give up, but once you find the One for you it makes it all worth while. It took me over three good years of looking, and thats Not a lot but Im very very lucky and I love Sir with all my heart. ^^