Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
No! Definitely not.


Two is such a limiting number.

All that has been said before... if you started to categorize and number them, would far exceed such a lonely number... (I hear a song-worm growing in my head.)

sidhewolf has a great handle on this topic (as do others.)

I think the most interesting thing is how "poly" has morphed (a lot like bdsm has) since the internet has come along. Open (and semi-open) marriages were about all that was "available" to new couples 15-20-30+ years ago... and those of us who chose that, had to deal with it without all the information available to you today.
All very true imo/e Sir Ozme. But don't forgot the ones that didn't Choose Legal Marriage Some were Open Relationship(s). But as You have said, All were without all the information one can tap into these days. It was fly by the seat of your pants and hope you landed well back then. Trial=Maybe this method, Relationship, etc. will work. AND Error=Oh Gods I'm not doing it that way again <G>. Since 1990 and the Poly community Growing, and then the Net, things are sooooo much easier. One can actually Learn from other(s) mistakes and mis-takes now, if they Choose to.

Oh and Sir Ozme, it's been closer to 30 years since then hahahaha

Respectfully-SidheWolf