Thanks Sub'wife & silky,
Yes I'm glad to have posted and got the initial intro ordeal overwith too and gez I'm sorry about it being so long-winded. guess i should have left it at a simple: was once; didnt last; divorced now and spared giving you guys the lengthy details yo no doubt could have easily done without am I right or what? it's ok to just slap me ever time I get to be a pest ok? heehee

want to slap me know? pppllleeeaasseeeee?????

thanks for the warm welcome