Originally posted by Mobius
that the master/mistris is pleased and put her/his cares to the side?
erm. i dont really think so?

i guess yes, you should care that you're making him happy and doing whatever he wants you to. but that doesnt mean that your needs/wants dont matter.

i guess there're differing views. but approaching it from a viewpoint when you're in a serious relationship with him, i would say that both parties needs/cares should be taken into consideration.

i'm perfectly willing to do whatever he wants me to, just that for things that make me uncomfortable, i need to be given time or at least to talk abt why i'm uncomfortable with it. of course, if i'm just being a spoilt brat and being unreasonable, then yeah, he can spank me after i've had my say