for me at least...it was a journey of knowledge and discovery. i knew i liked someone with a more forceful personality. i didnt know it had a name or a lifestyle till i was playing on the net one night. i said hmmm...this sounds like something i need to explore.
i loved be an anonymous person on the other end of a computer, and like cali it took Him giving me His number and me eventually calling, that first make it feel real. It was a step closer, hearing that other person on the phone. After He and i talked for a while it became more apparent that i was submissive, that i needed to be submissive. Little by little i felt it get more real. But, it was the minute i walked in His house and He said strip slave, and i was naked and kneeling on the floor, that it became a reality. i knew there was no going back.