ID and all responders...
Thank you for the post and the realisation that Domspace is not just my danger zone...
I have experienced this with my sub and felt concerned by the powerful force that I'm not sure I'm in control of. A pretty bad place to be in a scene....
And to talk about it...to realise others have he same experience is to name what I;m experiencing.
It;s something I very definately don't want to lose...but I also need my sub to be safe...
It's the dangerous edge of things we seek.
Sardis