submissivewife,

Thanks but as I said I really don't know what to ask. I think you have explained it very well here in this post. If I come up with a definite question, I'll get back to you.

My original confusion centered around the names "Sir" & "Daddy." I was wondering if there was some significance assigned to those names. After reading this post maybe "Daddy" came from your little girl side. Not sure if I picked up on that correctly.