I have been to a couple of BDSM meetings back in Houston. One was purely infomative (ie: upcoming events) The other was demonstrations but there is one thing I did notice.

There were people of all shapes and sizes there. It takes all kinds in this world and I am glad for it because I am one of those people that isn't exactly "to die for" but there are many that do not care about that. Which I am very thankful for.